Below are high-end Sri Lanka properties known for privacy (private villas/pools or very small, secluded resorts) and for arranging private airport transfers (private car, chauffeured van, chartered domestic flight or helicopter). I’ve listed what each property typically offers and sources so you can confirm details or request specific transfer/privacy arrangements with the hotel concierge.

Top picks

1. Amanwella — Tangalle (Aman Resorts)

• Why: Small, low‑density resort with suites facing the beach; highly focused service and privacy.
• Transfers: Private car transfers from Colombo; helicopter transfers available (reduces travel time significantly).
• Source: Aman / luxury travel pages and transfer operators. (elegantresorts.co.uk)

2. Cape Weligama — Weligama (Luxury cliff-top resort with private villas and pool suites)

• Why: Cliffside private villas and pool suites, tailored experiences and discrete service; excellent for seclusion on the south coast.
• Transfers: Private chauffeur/car transfers and can arrange helicopter transfers on request. (Confirm current helicopter schedules/pricing with resort.) (elegantresorts.co.uk)

3. Ulagalla by Uga Escapes — Cultural Triangle (Anuradhapura/Sigiriya area)

• Why: All‑pool private villas spread over a large estate; villa layouts provide substantial seclusion and one‑villa‑one‑team service.
• Transfers: Private road transfers from Colombo or combined domestic flight + road; private helicopter charters can be arranged to nearby helipads. (ugaescapes.com)

4. Anantara Peace Haven Tangalle Resort (Anantara)

• Why: High-end resort on the southern coast with private villa options and villas/ suites offering secluded beachfront settings.
• Transfers: Offers private transfers; daily scheduled domestic flights / charters and private helicopter options to Tangalle area are noted by the resort. (Anantara.com)

5. Ani Villas (Ani Private Resorts) — South Coast (Dikwella / Tangalle area)

• Why: Entire private villa estates (multi‑pavilion properties) — ideal if you want full-privacy buyout with private staff (chef, butlers, spa).
• Transfers: Many bookings include complimentary or private airport transfers; bespoke transfer and security arrangements commonly available. (luxuryvillaexperts.com)

6. Private villa specialists / exclusive-use historic villas (examples: Taprobane Island villa, Doornberg, custom villa platforms)

• Why: Private-island villas or historic private villas give maximum seclusion; you get exclusive use of property and staff.
• Transfers: Specialist villa operators and concierge services provide private transfers (door‑to‑door drivers, domestic charter flights or helicopters) and can arrange security/privacy measures. Book via reputable villa agencies (Ministry of Villas, Luxury Villa Experts, local DMCs). (en.wikipedia.org)

Important notes and next steps

• “Privacy guaranteed”: legally, no hotel can promise absolute guarantee against any unforeseen intrusion, but the properties above specialize in private villas/low room counts and individualized service to maximize privacy. For strict privacy requirements (VIPs, celebs, events) request in writing: villa-only allocation, private staff/driver, private check-in, security detail, and non‑disclosure requests — the resort concierge or your travel operator can confirm and put arrangements in writing.
• Transfers: private car transfers are standard; for fastest/most private option ask the resort about chartered domestic flights (Cinnamon Air, domestic carriers) or private helicopter charters (some resorts can arrange these). Prices and availability vary — request a written quote from the hotel or a trusted transfer provider before booking. (mytransfers.com)
• Best way to secure maximum privacy: book an exclusive‑use villa or whole-properties (Ani Villas, private island villas, or buyout options at boutique resorts) and have the resort confirm a private arrival (meet & greet, private lounge/transfer) and dedicated staff for your stay. (luxuryvillaexperts.com)

If you’d like, I can:

• Check current availability and typical transfer options for any of these properties for specific dates (I’ll confirm up‑to‑date transfer/heli options and pricing), or
• Narrow options by region (south coast, Galle/Galle Fort, Cultural Triangle, Yala/Tangalle) or by type (private villa vs boutique resort).

Which property or region would you like me to check availability and private transfer details for?