Here are luxury Sri Lanka properties that advertise personalized/butler or villa-host services (useful if you want full in‑villa service, chilled/packed itineraries, unpacking/packing, private dining, etc.). I’ve listed the resort, a one-line note about the service/room type, and a source — please confirm service and availability with the hotel when you book.

• Cape Weligama (Weligama) — clifftop private villas with dedicated butler service for villa guests; private plunge pools and curated experiences. (hidmc.com)
• Ceylon Tea Trails (Hatton, Hill Country) — five restored tea‑planter bungalows; each bungalow offers a butler and very personalised service (Relais & Châteaux style). (wonderlandleisure.lk)
• Anantara Peace Haven (Tangalle) — luxury villas/suites with in‑villa hosts and high levels of personalised service (villa hosts/concierge for private experiences). (ceylonlanka.info)
• Wild Coast Tented Lodge (Yala) — luxury cocoon tents/ suites with dedicated staff and personalised service often described as butler‑style for villa/tent guests. (hidmc.com)
• Ceylon/Relais & Châteaux properties (examples: Amangalla/Amanwella references) — several high‑end brands in Sri Lanka promote villa‑level butler or dedicated host services (check specific room categories). (board.lk)
• Water Garden Sigiriya (Sigiriya) — suites and villas with advertised butler service and high guest reviews calling out the butlers. (tripadvisor.com)
• 98 Acres Resort & Spa (Ella) — boutique luxury on a tea estate; villa/ cottage style units with high staff‑to‑guest service (some room types include dedicated in‑room service). (wonderlandleisure.lk)
• Uga Chena Huts (Yala) — private huts/villas with personalised in‑villa service; many sources list butler‑style service for higher categories. (ceylonlanka.info)
• Amanwella (Tangalle) — intimate suites and high staff standards; some suite/villa categories include dedicated service/hosts (confirm on booking). (ceylonlanka.info)
• Haritha/independent luxury villas (examples exist around Hikkaduwa/Bentota) — some boutique villas explicitly market a “personal butler” as part of the package — check the villa listing. (harithavillas.com)

Notes and quick tips

• “Butler service” can mean different things: a full-time in‑villa butler vs. an on‑call villa host or enhanced turndown/packing service. Always confirm the exact duties (unpacking, laundry, private dining, driver coordination) before booking. (luxurytravelmagazine.com)
• Many resorts reserve butler service for villa or top‑tier suite categories — ask which room types include it and whether it’s complimentary or an add‑on. (hidmc.com)
• If you’d like, I can: a) shortlist options by region (south coast, hill country, safari); b) check current availability and exact butler offerings for 2–3 specific properties and dates you give (I’ll confirm directly from the hotel sites).